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advice'/><category term='vacation'/><category term='denial'/><category term='princess'/><category term='traditions'/><category term='household organization'/><category term='party'/><category term='goals'/><category term='communication'/><category term='confessions'/><category term='daughters'/><category term='kid time'/><category term='criticism'/><category term='author interview'/><category term='wisdom'/><category term='quotes'/><category term='teens'/><category term='overwhelmed'/><category term='busyness'/><category term='fathers'/><title type='text'>Comments on Coming Clean: Confessions of an Imperfect Parent: Sibling Savagery</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/feeds/5457089103352525554/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html'/><author><name>Melinda</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01156194155140470909</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fvw3azj43OY/S2SJ5c9sY6I/AAAAAAAAAjY/7n_CMXmZ_Co/S220/button+copy.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>7</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-1171448060826734728</id><published>2010-12-16T20:24:24.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-16T20:24:24.002-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Wow this was so on point.  It&amp;#39;s bad in my hous...</title><content type='html'>Wow this was so on point.  It&amp;#39;s bad in my house too. Since I was an only child I never knew how it could be.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/1171448060826734728'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/1171448060826734728'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html?showComment=1292549064002#c1171448060826734728' title=''/><author><name>Help! Mama Remote...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03827756074795953233</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15158231721509334753'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jBW9fLvn8-E/SzRV96gLf1I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Zds2bXS-B48/S220/testdr-copy-150x150.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-5457089103352525554' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/posts/default/5457089103352525554' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1183143962'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-734115689659334960</id><published>2010-12-16T13:46:12.580-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-16T13:46:12.580-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I really liked this post. Sibling rivalry has been...</title><content type='html'>I really liked this post. Sibling rivalry has been a stress here for me lately. I&amp;#39;m gonna try to use some of these ideas. I LOVE the one about resolving it on their own or they both have a consequence!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/734115689659334960'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/734115689659334960'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html?showComment=1292525172580#c734115689659334960' title=''/><author><name>Adrienne</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13528968129655668573</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='04508111796414896629'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_z2fX33x_n8c/TOlkvL2HWGI/AAAAAAAAAsY/axKGfDsTT18/S220/button-3.png'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-5457089103352525554' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/posts/default/5457089103352525554' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-990750147'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-9133058072638444288</id><published>2010-12-16T01:20:32.137-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-16T01:20:32.137-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Great advice Melinda! Thanks for the mention. I kn...</title><content type='html'>Great advice Melinda! Thanks for the mention. I know we have a long road ahead of us and I know I project my own wants on them. Like wanting them to be best friends and stick up for each other. I need to be more realistic and realize there will always be squabbles and to not get so upset about it. It&amp;#39;s hard to watch but you&amp;#39;re right, we can&amp;#39;t always be the referee.&lt;br /&gt;Good luck and thanks again for such great perspective :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/9133058072638444288'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/9133058072638444288'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html?showComment=1292480432137#c9133058072638444288' title=''/><author><name>Melissa (Confessions of a Dr. Mom)</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14468887103710530554</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='04421700259931754455'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_faac6nF1Srk/TFFD60H1bNI/AAAAAAAAAHg/F95LCArc7ZI/S220/button.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-5457089103352525554' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/posts/default/5457089103352525554' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1606704666'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-477963748528779698</id><published>2010-12-16T01:03:50.533-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-16T01:03:50.533-05:00</updated><title type='text'>It sounds like a good plan!

Good luck.
Parenting ...</title><content type='html'>It sounds like a good plan!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good luck.&lt;br /&gt;Parenting is a tough job.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/477963748528779698'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/477963748528779698'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html?showComment=1292479430533#c477963748528779698' title=''/><author><name>Reyna</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17338898718251290682</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='03626050925442905671'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-5457089103352525554' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/posts/default/5457089103352525554' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-845793434'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-500384192782204201</id><published>2010-12-15T21:38:25.939-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-15T21:38:25.939-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This is a problem at our house as well.  My two ol...</title><content type='html'>This is a problem at our house as well.  My two oldest start fighting the minute they make eye contact in the morning.  Interestingly enough when alone, or home with SuperHubby working from home, they NEVER FIGHT!!! NEVER FIGHT!!!  It is unbelievable.&lt;br /&gt;I try to avoid getting in the middle of things, my husband is less successful at this.  I also try to make light of them when they pull the &amp;quot;you like him/her more than me&amp;quot;.  You know &amp;quot;of course I do&amp;quot;, &amp;quot;Isn&amp;#39;t obvious&amp;quot;.  That usually makes them see how ridiculous they are being.&lt;br /&gt;I look forward to the updates to hear how things are going.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/500384192782204201'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/500384192782204201'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html?showComment=1292467105939#c500384192782204201' title=''/><author><name>Making It Work Mom</name><uri>http://www.makingitworkmom.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-5457089103352525554' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/posts/default/5457089103352525554' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-107529023'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-4306137293057898755</id><published>2010-12-15T18:47:37.800-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-15T18:47:37.800-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Great advice!!  Although I&amp;#39;m passed that stage...</title><content type='html'>Great advice!!  Although I&amp;#39;m passed that stage now I look forward to spoiling grandchildren! HA!!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/4306137293057898755'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/4306137293057898755'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html?showComment=1292456857800#c4306137293057898755' title=''/><author><name>Saimi</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09205857549533433625</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01064419403802456566'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LULXECwxII4/TO1u5WyX9HI/AAAAAAAALwo/pJyS__a7Kk0/S220/P1020108.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-5457089103352525554' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/posts/default/5457089103352525554' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-913568986'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-3574970726103484738</id><published>2010-12-15T13:59:08.800-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-15T13:59:08.800-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Yet another reason I&amp;#39;m glad you&amp;#39;re doing t...</title><content type='html'>Yet another reason I&amp;#39;m glad you&amp;#39;re doing this before me!  :) I&amp;#39;m super duper glad I watched Super Nanny before I had kids. I wish I&amp;#39;d watched her before I became a teacher. Consistency is key. Stick with it! You can do it!  :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/3574970726103484738'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/5457089103352525554/comments/default/3574970726103484738'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html?showComment=1292439548800#c3574970726103484738' title=''/><author><name>Rachel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05474888243365793750</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11414154260300378323'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_tKnwmOhKm_I/TH-z0Jf1riI/AAAAAAAAABs/EktEQ1jh5Fs/S220/Rachel.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.parentingconfessions.com/2010/12/battle-of-siblings.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-296085282724864567.post-5457089103352525554' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/296085282724864567/posts/default/5457089103352525554' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-25357480'/></entry></feed>
