If you were a fly on the wall at my house, you'd be sure to hear your share of fussing, complaining and whining. Maybe even a slammed door or two.

But enough about me.

In the pressure cooker that's parenting, I have exploded more than once. And it's harder to clean up than spaghetti night with a toddler.

So after years spent indulging in fruitless self-flogging, I finally let go of my obsession with getting it all 'just right.' I confess...I'm not a perfect parent.

Whew. That felt good.

Now, when my son saunters in with his 42nd tardy of the school year, I let it go. When I hear myself hollering "Whatever!" at my teenage daughter, I move on.

Having it all together is overrated anyway.

And I've determined not to waste God's grace. I'll never get it just right. You won't, either. So read on, sister. If you see a little of yourself in me, I hope it helps to know that you're not alone. Nope. If you're a mom, face it. You're never, ever alone.

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Sunday, May 2, 2010

Coming Clean Celebration Giveaway!

It's a momentous occasion.

I'm sure you've had it marked on your calendars for weeks.

That's right. Today marks one year that you've been the unbelievably fortunate recipients of my incredible wit and wisdom.

I imagine you must be asking yourselves, "How did we ever parent before Coming Clean?"

Surely, only by God's grace. Wait a second, that's how I parent.

Yep, the truth is we're in this parenting thing together. And God knows we need His help! I'm so thankful to all of you that have visited and encouraged me over the past year. Having your support in the journey has meant more than I can tell you.

God designed us to need each other. It's okay. It doesn't make us weak or inadequate. It just makes us human.

And parents are nothing if not human!

I've had a lot of fun sharing with you my parenting struggles and mishaps and what God has taught me along the way. Weird how sharing our mistakes can actually be enjoyable when we're able to learn from them and use them to perhaps help someone else. It's definitely made me feel not alone. Hopefully, it's done the same for you.

Well, in case you missed some of my invaluable inspiration the first time around, here are a few past gems:

Love Is A Battlefield

Can You Spell V-A-I-N?

Mom Detective: Fighting Time

A Humbling Experience

Swimming With The Sharks

Mom: The Un-Friend

My Idol? Performance

Finding Community at Kmart

Okay, now that the birthday girl has made her speech, what would a party be without presents? This present is for one of you, however!

Seems only fitting that Coming Clean should celebrate with some sudsy bath products. So I'm giving away this great Philosophy Shower Gel Combo Set to one lucky winner (Retail Value: $30) And just in time for summer!




This set includes lime coconut, pineapple coconut and orange coconut shampoo, shower gel and bubble baths. They cleanse and moisturize and smell delicious!

Here's how to enter the giveaway!


1. Follow me publicly and leave me a comment telling me so. (1 entry)

2. Follow me on Twitter and leave me a comment. (1 entry)

3. Follow me on Facebook and leave me a comment. (1 entry)

4. Subscribe via email or RSS feed and leave me a comment. (1 entry)

5. If you are already following me on any of these, leave me a comment for each one in order to receive one entry for each.

6. Tweet this giveaway and tell me you did. I'll make it easy for ya: Enter Coming Clean's Philopsophy Going Coconuts Shower Gel Set giveaway @MelindaMeans http://bit.ly/ddbp6R (1 entry)

Please leave a separate comment for each entry in order for all of your entries to count. Giveaway ends Monday, May 10th.

Thanks again for making my first year of blogging so fun and special. You make it easy, safe -- and yes, even fun -- to be real and transparent.

Now "Go Coconuts" and start leaving me some comments!

*Philosophy did not donate this product. This is my own personal giveaway.
Melinda

25 comments:

  1. Congratulations!!! Happy Blogiversary (blogoversary, blogversary...whatever!)!!! Looking forward to getting to know you better over the next year!!

    I'm following you...of course.

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  2. Tweeted. http://twitter.com/HandsHouseHeart/status/13298781238

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  3. Of course I'm a follower on FB as well.

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  4. I also subscribe via feed. ;-)

    Thanks Melinda--good choice of giveaway by the way lol.

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  5. Happy One year!!! You have a very cheerful, honest blog. Glad I stopped by. God bless.

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  6. What fun way to celebrate YOU! I did tweet ya! Hope it gives you lots of new readers as a gift to you! love ya!

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  7. Thank you for inspiring us to learn from our mistakes and support each other in parenting.
    I follow you via GFC.
    thorandellie[att]gmail[dott]com

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  8. I subscribe via email.
    thorandellie[att]gmail[dott]com
    P.S. Thanks for the giveaway!

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  9. One Year Anniversary for you & a Three Day Anniversary for me! Yay!

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  10. Happy Anniversary! This is so exciting! I hope it's been a great year for you!

    I'm following!

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  11. I'm already following on Facebook, too!

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  12. I'm also following by email, and you're on my Blogger feed.

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  13. And by the way... Thank you for being willing to expose your parenting weaknesses to us (and even some non-parenting ones). No matter how often I hear it from my loved ones it's always hard to believe that other parents have the same struggles Nice Guy and I do, unless those other parents are as open as you are about it. You've been a blessing.

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  14. Awwww, thank you, Victoria! You really have been a blessing to me, too. I'm always blessed when I see a comment from you! ;0)

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  15. Happy Blogiversary! I'm just sorry it took me so long to find your blog :)

    I follow you.

    unexpectedblissblog@gmail.com

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  16. Tweeted :)

    unexpectedblissblog@gmail.com

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  17. Wow, Melinda, has it only been a year? Look how well you've done! Congrats dear friend. Happy one year old!

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  18. I'm following you on Twitter!
    @themommylogues

    Oh my word how I love Philosophy. And coconut.

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  19. Tweeted!! http://twitter.com/mom2mitchshayna/status/13323386077

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  20. I follow your blog publicly!

    lynnx512 at gmail dot com

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  21. Yya, happy blog anniversary! :) I'd love to come clean with this set, I love Philosophy. Thanks! I follow your blog.

    shevilkenevil1 at aol dot com

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  22. I follow on Twitter (lipstickncandy)

    shevilkenevil1 at aol dot com

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  23. I RSS subscribe via Yahoo reader.

    shevilkenevil1 at aol dot com

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  24. I tweeted:
    http://twitter.com/lipstickncandy/status/13375241644

    shevilkenevil1 at aol dot com

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