If you were a fly on the wall at my house, you'd be sure to hear your share of fussing, complaining and whining. Maybe even a slammed door or two.

But enough about me.

In the pressure cooker that's parenting, I have exploded more than once. And it's harder to clean up than spaghetti night with a toddler.

So after years spent indulging in fruitless self-flogging, I finally let go of my obsession with getting it all 'just right.' I confess...I'm not a perfect parent.

Whew. That felt good.

Now, when my son saunters in with his 42nd tardy of the school year, I let it go. When I hear myself hollering "Whatever!" at my teenage daughter, I move on.

Having it all together is overrated anyway.

And I've determined not to waste God's grace. I'll never get it just right. You won't, either. So read on, sister. If you see a little of yourself in me, I hope it helps to know that you're not alone. Nope. If you're a mom, face it. You're never, ever alone.

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Thursday, August 6, 2009

Operation Organization: Week One Victories!

Update: Forgot to tell you a couple of things! 1.) Don't forget to post my button (see right sidebar) or link to this post in your Week 2 Goal Post. 2.) This week's giveaway is a $10 Marshalls gift card!

I took a walk on the wild side this week. I decided to tackle my daughter's room.

How one 90-pound child could accumulate so much junk boggles the mind.

It was a jungle in there.

I wish I had "Before" photos to show you. Unfortunately, my husband accidentally deleted my photos. If he hadn't just thrown me the sweetest surprise birthday party ever, I might have to hurt him.

But trust me, my friends, it was a frightening sight. I disposed of 8-10 trash bags and gave away at least 4-5 trash bags full of clothes, as well as a large box of books. The room is only 12x12 so that kind of puts the gross magnitude of the mess into perspective.

Now, her room resembles a jungle of a different kind:



Molly and Micah decided they wanted each other's beds. So Molly's bunk bed went to Micah's room and Micah's trundle became a king-sized bed for Molly. How 'bout those bedspreads? (On sale at Target!)




And there's absolutely no excuse for not doing homework now! Molly's old desk, with the drawers falling off, made its long-overdue journey to the trash heap. Again, found a cheap desk at Target.

Pre-makeover, Molly's walk-in closet was an "open the door and run out screaming" closet. Now, you can actually see the floor! I decided to hang nearly all her clothes on hangers, except for pajamas, socks, underwear and T-shirts and shorts. She can easily see what she has and it will keep the dresser from becoming an overflowing nightmare.




I also left room in her bookcase for her school textbooks, binders and folders. Maybe it will help with my morning madness.



Eye of the tiger, baby! I did it! ;0)
And so did you! Many of you posted your Before and After photos on your own blogs, which is great!
In fact, for future weeks, I'm going to request that everyone post their B&A photos on their own blogs, instead of emailing them to me. I didn't anticipate the fabulous response I received to Operation Organization (yea!!!) -- there's just no way I could post all your photos in one post.
However, some of you did email your photos, so I want to share!
The first ones are from Lil Ms. P who tackled her desk area.
Here's the Before:



And After!


Wow! Looks awesome, Lil Ms. P! I bet cleaning that one relatively small area makes the whole room look better!
The next photos are from Suzanne, who tackled a closet (brave woman!)
Before:



After!



Love those stackable bins, Suzanne. Those are fabulous for making mess manageable. Great work!
Last but not least, are photos from Amber, who reorganized her kitchen counter. That's always a problem area for me, Amber, so good for you!!
Before:




After!



Now we're cooking!
The rest of the B&A photos are on your individual blogs.
I am so proud of you! You are giving such a great gift to yourself and your family.
Okay, now we'll use these victories to propel us to our next battle: Operation Organization Week 2 Goal!
You know the drill:
1.) Go to your blog and post your Week 2 Goal. You can post your "Before" photo or you can wait until next Friday and post both your "Before" and "After" photos together.
2.) Link to your Week 2 Goal Post via Mister Linky below.
3.) Visit each other's blogs and cheer each other on! I'm out of town until Sunday, but I'll visit as many of you as I can when I return.
Finally, the random winner of this week's $10 Target gift card is Cindy (messy drawers)! Congrats! You earned it! Send your email address to melinda@parentingconfessions.com and I'll email you your gift card!
If you haven't joined my organizing challenge, you can still join in any time! Click here to learn more.
Once again, GREAT work, troops! Now back to the battlefield for our next victory!
*Note: If you didn't finish your Week 1 Goal, just make it your Week 2 Goal. Don't give up!
Melinda

16 comments:

  1. Good job with your daughter's room! I'm sure that was quite an undertaking!!!

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  2. I love the bedroom! Sounds like my room when I was a teenager with all the stuff you pulled out of there. I didn't quite finish my week 1 mission, will hopefully have it done by Sunday and then I'll start on week 2's mission. This week just wasn't very productive in any area of my life.

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  3. Your daughter's room looks great. I'm working my way up to my 8 year old's room. Tackling my pantry this week.

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  4. The bedroom looks fab! I am impressed you got it all done in a week. I don't think you could've hauled out all my crap when I was a teenager in a week *L*

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  5. I am not brave enough to post photos - but we are staging our home to sell - and it's closet clean out big time here. I cleaned my desk and my daughters closet today and boy does it feel good to have some order! But I have a long way to go with the attic and basement! EEEEEKKK!!!

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  6. These all look great. I re-organized my pantry not to long ago. I need to find an organizational solution for kitchen island. it's become a catch all mess.

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  7. barely got this week's challenge done--been a crazy week! But it's done. I'm moving on to small task # 2. Congrats to everyone who is playing along!

    Great job on the room!!

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  8. I love the look of the new bedroom all clean. I think I am going to do the same thing with my daughter is hang all of her stuff so for the same reason she can see them and her drawers arent bursting at the seams.

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  9. Thanks again for hosting this - great idea!!!!

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  10. From one of your previous posts...

    I will also remember Proverbs 15:1.

    You always find humor in the most stressful situations. How do you do that? I ususally press panic and everything goes even further downhill.

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  11. Way to go!! I do love the bed spread!

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  12. oh i miss the days when my mommy would clean my room!!! i NEED to get on the bandwagon here. i THOUGHT i was organized, but now football season has started and school. the house is a MESS!!!

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  13. It looks great! It's hard when they get to the age where they have their OWN opinion of how they want things! My older two are to that point and they share with the younger two, so it gets interesting! When they are small, you can clean out and arrange however you please! I was sick and didn't finish week one, but I'm ready to go this week!

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  14. I am in and really need to fix this area. It gets clean and then bam it it back to ugly!

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  15. Hi,
    I'm following your blog from MBC. Your before and after pics are very inspirational. Trying to get the kids to keep their rooms free of clutter and in order is a huge undertaking. My 6 year old is currently "re-organizing" his toys, or so he tells us when we ask why they have been spread out all over his floor for several days. I think he's going to need some adult supervision to get the job done. Great blog!

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