If you were a fly on the wall at my house, you'd be sure to hear your share of fussing, complaining and whining. Maybe even a slammed door or two.

But enough about me.

In the pressure cooker that's parenting, I have exploded more than once. And it's harder to clean up than spaghetti night with a toddler.

So after years spent indulging in fruitless self-flogging, I finally let go of my obsession with getting it all 'just right.' I confess...I'm not a perfect parent.

Whew. That felt good.

Now, when my son saunters in with his 42nd tardy of the school year, I let it go. When I hear myself hollering "Whatever!" at my teenage daughter, I move on.

Having it all together is overrated anyway.

And I've determined not to waste God's grace. I'll never get it just right. You won't, either. So read on, sister. If you see a little of yourself in me, I hope it helps to know that you're not alone. Nope. If you're a mom, face it. You're never, ever alone.

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Friday, May 1, 2009

Bio

For many years, Melinda was enslaved to people pleasing and perfectionism. It created an overwhelming pressure of obligation that snuffed out any aroma of God's grace. Fortunately, He was not content to leave her in bondage.

God used Melinda's love for her growing family, along with some often painful life lessons, to liberate her from the prison of people pleasing. Although she will always be "in recovery," her missteps are no longer a source of condemnation but an opportunity to experience God's grace and mercy.

Now she writes, speaks and blogs about her struggles and victories in life and parenting --hoping it will set other women free as well.

Melinda has a degree in Mass Communications and has worked as a freelance writer for more than 15 years. She has written for a variety of Christian publications and websites, include CBN.com, Focus on the Family's Focus on Your Child newsletters, Clubhouse and LifeWay's Journey: A Woman's Guide to Intimacy with God. She also has an article in the upcoming April 2010 issue of In Touch, Charles Stanley's ministry magazine.

She lives in Florida with her husband, Mike, and children, Molly, 13, and Micah, 10.
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